Hello DB community,

I have been lurking and reading for a while.
My SO dropped on me and I feel devastated.
I want to make it better and so feel she is making a mistake.
Yes I have broken lots of the rules. Hopefully not irreparably.
I am getting the news letters. Have the video series and DR. Also reading Men are from Mars at the recommendation of my minister. Very glad to see it is referenced here as well.
My apologies for perhaps a less than organized first post.


H (me) 56 ; W 54 ; M 32 ; D 32 ; D 30 ; S 21 ; Grandkids: 12, 11, 10, 8, 1