Things are complicated when trust is broken and a relationship is damaged
And it takes time to heal
A long time
Take your time
Trust your instincts
You built walls of self protection around your heart
And she did too
If reconciliation is in the cards
You will only dismantle them when you trust it is safe to do so
And she will too
Tricky thing is this may not happen at the same pace
Take your time
And if you are unsure of something or what to do
Pause
And the answer will come to you
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving