Quick update. Hope everyone is moving along without too much drama and pain. Holidays can escalate issues. Knowing and anticipating helps.
So all is well in Limbo Land. W continues to show love in her way. No affection, but Acts of Service, Respect, Quality Time are all apparent. As with most LBSs, I am slow to trust these signs. I do my thing. Validate and don't pursue. Lower my expectations. Limit engagement. Occasionally I will share a story, but mostly listening.
Intuition tells me I need to intentionally maintain a distance. Experience says this distance is appreciated and if there is ever a "loss" to be experienced, I'm not sure I am heading in the right direction. Thoughts?
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
