You are spot on Gordie. I know this woman after all these years, if she wanted out she’d be gone. OM has nothing going for him and will not leave his wife. My W is severely damaged by trauma in her life that she is just in the last few months trying to cope with after repressing all her life. I have a Hiroshima plan if therapy goes no where and this continues but am hoping for the best.

H-50
W-48
T-19
M -18
S23, S14
BD - 5/9/2018
OM discovered 5/10/2018

In house sep - 8/18/2018
Rope drop 2/15/2019
R'ing since 3/15/2019