My Story

[Gordie]

Lost8

I think you have already communicated

That you still love her and do not want to break up the marriage and family

That you do not believe in open marriage or a three way relationship

If I am correct I see no further clarification necessary

Yes at times she says contradictory things and you are doing a good job of validating

Maybe she is confused or maybe she is manipulating you to stay right there as plan b

You cannot read her mind so remember her words are meaningless without a significant and sustained change in her actions

Feel free to say nothing

Or say exactly that and nothing more