Hope all is well. Kudos on the potty training. My 3 year old son is finally through as well. Great thing knowing I'll never have to buy diapers again. Hope everything goes your way here in the next couple weeks with the D. As far as the disorder goes? She will try to hoover you in, but it's up to you to not fall for it. And I can tell you right now. There will be no genuine change. Sure, you'll want to see it, and you may even try to convinve yourself the act she is putting on is genuine. DO NOT FALL FOR IT. Personality disorders don't just go away. The individual has to put forth serious effort into getting better. The kicker is the disorder won't allow the person to accept that anything is wrong with them. So it's nearly impossible for them to get the help they need, because in their eyes, nothing is wrong. My WW has showed up several times being all nice and trying to act like she's a dfiierent person. I refuse to believe it, because I know she isn't. It's all just a ploy to get something from me. 2 days later, I'll hear from a mutual friend that she's slandering me again. I think you're far enough into this to not worry about genuine change with her. Let her go. She has nothing to offer you anymore except for more pain and grief. Good luck, buddy...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019