Just hopping in for a quick update. Things are going great for me. Still GAL like it's my job. Cannot stress how important it is for getting throught the rough times. Gotta keep the mind occupied. Not much has changed in my sitch. Still moving ahead with the D. WW is still as nutty as a squirrel turd. She still has nearly no contact with the kids. Which is disappointing, but at the same time, may not be bad due to her drug abuse and other issues. She recently got another job as a secretary for some company. Lasted about a week before she got fired. She accused me of calling them and telling her boss that she was a recovering drug addict that has been fired from other jobs for stealing. Story doesn't really add up. She said he told her that he wasn't letting her go because of that call because that is just hearsay and he won't fire someone over a rumor, but he was letting her go because she is a single mom, going through a D, with a lot on her plate at the moment. I call BS. That would be an HR nightmare. Pretty sure she screwed it up herself and just needs someone to blame...
She also is moving into the goverment housing apartments this weekend because she can't afford the place she moved into. So of course, she's showed up here a couple times sniffing around and looking for things to take. I pretty much told her that there's nothing left here for her and there's no reason to stop by. That she's more than welcome to see the kids whenever she wants. Just send me a text setting plans and come get them, but the days of her randomly stopping by right before they go to bed and creeping around the house looking for things to take were over...
Kind of funny. She started popping up a bit more for a short period of time when she found out I had a female friend that I was spending time with. Accusing me of having her spending the night (I have not), having sex with her (I have not), and telling people she was my girlfriend (I have not). Also noticed her creeping by late at night in front of the house. I'd be on the front porch having a beer or glass of wine at midnight, and she would drive by and slow down as she went by the house. Weird...
As for me, got everyhting back into the school year routine. I'm busy teaching and the kids are back in school too. It can be hectic somedays, but that's just the way it is. We're doing the best we can with what we've got and doing a fine job of it. Need to get back into my workout routine though. With school starting and everything getting busier again, it kind of fell to the side. Going to a Labor Day concert on Monday which will be fun. Kids are spending the night at my parents' house thath night and running them to school the next day, so that will be nice. Not sure I'll know what to do not having to get the kids ready in the morning. Haha. Anyway, hope you all are doing well. I'd like to log on more and read some new threads and give back some advice, but I'm really busy right now. Hopefully I'll find the time soon...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019
