I thought I was doing well--until I called my wife today to let her know that there is no way I could be separated from my kids all year (no matter how many times I came down to visit). She said that's fine, but that we need to fast track the divorce then. That it needs to be finalized before we sell the house in Minnesota (since we have established residency here) and I move down. Now, I'm torn up again. I refrained from asking her if there was any chance at reconciliation. I guess I just have to keep focusing on 180 and detaching. The odds looked pretty stacked against this not ending in divorce quickly. I guess the end goal now is to come out a better man and the best father I can be. My wife still has no love for me, even though I feel like I've grown so much in three weeks and realize now what I'd need to do to be a great husband. She acts like this won't affect the kids at all. I refrained from telling her that it's going to tear them up.
