Originally Posted by kech
If I do and he asks to come see the baby how should I handle it? Any thoughts/suggestions? Thanks!
Like I said earlier, Have him watch D while you go out and do things. It shouldn't be last minute. (You saw my boundary with my ex-wife).

You can initiate.


Best thing you can do is have him parenting during his "FUN TIME" time, while you take car of you.

Like tonight, offer D time from 3-9. You can go to dinner and movie (alone)

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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