good morning, Parkema... you are stable and even-keeled... if i were you, i would use whatever leveraged i had to get the most time with my boys... i understand your annoyance with the "unreasonable behaviour." how disingenuous can she be? does she not see that her behaviour--taking up with another man, setting up house with him--is unreasonable? do what you must to get the most time possible with your boys...
