Chris73

Sounds to me like you are doing better with the detachment

Than you indeed are giving yourself credit

Healing as you know takes time

And you were married for a long time

So give yourself a break

None of this follows a timeline

Particularly getting over the ex

And feeling ready for another R

Follow your conscience

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving