Sounds like September will be a revealing month for you. I have always said that I think her anxiety is a bullcrap excuse, and coming from me that says a lot bc I have anxiety to I think we all do. It's a normal human function. I think now people use it as an excuse to not have to actually process anything.

Anyhow... sounds like you have a good grip on it. And if you think it over that is really only for you to say. Let's be honest, this is an advice and support forum and we only see one side.

Good luck in whatever happens.