While she was napping, though, I couldn't help but think "If we still get along this well, WTF are we getting divorced for?"
Yeah I thought that sooooo many times and still think it even now. Even after all these years I'm still kind of astonished that we're D'd. We got along really well right up to BD and really didn't get along badly at all even during S and D. And after all of that we settled back into a friendly R. I don't know what she thought she would find outside the M, but according to my girls she's still struggling with sadness and depression. Honestly I think that's as much of an answer we're ever going to get- they are unhappy and they're not sure why, but they're hoping if they ditch us it'll get better.
