Husband cheated, trying 180 (3)

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Kech,
Was off for a few.
As I said, as far as the big stuff, I will defer to the experts you have commenting.
In my personal experience, the all consuming time you are going through needs to end.
Does it matter what he is doing every minute of every day? Absolutely NOT!
Does it mater what he is thinking every minute of every day? Absolutely NOT!

His long term actions are what tell you what he is thinking. Don't believe ANYTHING he says and only half of what he does. Take this to heart. It is so true!

You need to take care of yourself and your D.
If his actions over the long term lead to some decision you have to make. You have already thought it about it, but deal with it when it happens. Being prepared for him giving you papers and worrying about it every minute of every day is another thing. It will happen IF it happens. Be prepared, but don't obsess. This coming from a man who totally obsesses about the love of my life but knows there is nothing I can do except control my reactions to real actions.

Knock them dead tonight and have fun! You deserve it!