I have done that as well, dress up nice for no reason so he thinks I was somewhere nice, etc. I havent been wearing my wedding ring since I found text from OW. I told him I refused to wear mine until he began wearing his again, we never got there.
I know that people want what they cant have, but I dont know how to make him want me again. And i dont know how to make him feel like he cant have me, when right now he knows im so heartbroken over this and knows he can have me.
When we separated in the beginning I did start to make comments to him so he knew he couldnt have me anymore. I think it started to get to him and he eventually asked to start staying the night again, etc. But now he knows im so heartbroken. Id love to do things in my actions to show he cant have me, but if he isnt even TRYING to have me, what do I do to show that?
