It is not your job to make this easy for him. I just thought about this. Think about it.

H is moving his stuff out this weekend. How about making him parent at the same time?

When would you expect him to start?

H, something came up, can you watch D for a few hours?

Y - Go get your hair/nails done.
N - Take D with you.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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