"We both know that is not true" "Until you speak the truth, I see no reason to continue speaking with you"
These are very helpful. I am going to write these down. I found myself last night scrolling through here looking for ways to validate and i couldnt find anything fast enough.
These will be used for sure, thank you so much. Truth darts as well, I have to work on my delivery.
Steve, I certainly hope you are right that he is lying about the divorce, I cannot get past it. He is SO angry with me for making him leave the house, but the minute he leaves he files for divorce. I know he says he wants to be here bc of our daughter, but if you file for divorce the day after being kicked out, then why are you THIS angry with the W for doing it? It makes no sense.
Petri, what youre saying seems to ring true. I have given him all the space in the world for a while now, its never enough. When I finally let him go he seems angry about it. But it also gets confusing bc of our daughter and he blurs the lines of if hes upset over not being here with her or if it actually affects him to not see me. I think right now its all about our daughter, but I certainly hope one day he sees that he might actually miss me a little too. But an instant divorce like he would like to have isnt really going to allot for that.
