Well, that didn't take long. I am noticing some changes already... Yesterday I had a celebration (not a birthday) and he gave me a card- on the envelope was written- Mrs..., and in the card- My Wife... signed- All Love xxx .... He also took me out to a concert and gave me flowers, kiss etc. Funny things happen when you least expect it. Now I dont want to give my love and attention at all despite this stuff he did yesterday... but I am nice and friendly, and busy.
These are some quotes I found from the guy I mentioned yesterday, it might help some other 'LBW' out there. Maybe some of these apply to the guys as well.: "When a woman turns her entire life around her guy, it gives him some form of claustrophobia." "He should always be the one chasing you and showing his interest in you, not the other way around." "Always be prepared to walk away when the relationship is not giving you what you want or deserve. That said, try to have realistic expectations." "And this is not just linked to men. I’m sure you wouldn’t want to stay with a guy who continuously needs to be reassured that you still love him, like him, are fond of him, etc." "You simply ignore him. You become less available, take longer to return his phone calls, have more important things to do than be available all the time. (You never should be available all the time anyway.)" "Men will always treat you the way you allow them to. They cannot respect a woman more than she respects herself."
And probably the most important: "Don’t request or expect something from him that he doesn’t want to give you on his own."
W34 H61 M1 T3 June-H said he wants divorce but hasn't filed. Living and sleeping in the same bed, no intimacy from H side for last 12 months.
