If he starts to argue with you then just agree with him. "You are right, I see how you feel. It's not working for me either." That's how you stop the drama.
So is this: "I want a H that does not act like he is single"
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712