The only one that you can control is you. H is gone for now. He is a liar, a manipulator and a cheater. Do not believe anything he says. We fix him later.
We work on how you interact with H. You get healthy first. After that the relationship is FORCED to change, for the better.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712