He left a little while ago and has been texting me ever since, saying how he hates having to leave his daughter. Then saying he needs answers as to when he needs to be here tomorrow. Then asking what time I’ll be home so he can figure out his sleeping arrangements.
Then he said we need to discuss bills and that he will need to get his own place. I agreed and he said okay we will talk soon take it easy.. I said you too and then he dropped the bomb. He said he started applying for a divorce and thought I should know.
He said he appreciates me trying to fix our marriage but that there are too many character barriers. I made the mistake of saying “my heart has never hurt so much”
He responded saying “I’m sorry its already done” “I tried too but there was just too much evidence it wasn’t working” “Home doesn’t feel like home and Love doesn’t feel like being in love” “I’m glad you have her” (meaning our daughter) “Night” “Sorry there was no middle ground between the man you need and the man I wanna live as” “I shouldn't have been submissive during our relationship and maybe there could have been middle ground. For that Im truly sorry”
Those were all his texts, and I did not respond. I am broken completely. I cannot believe he said all of that. I don’t want his pity. I cannot believe he is going to go through with divorce. He has got to have OW.
He gets so worked up and texts me non stop. But he’s saying things that are killing me. This is awful. What are your thoughts
