Here is the dance:
Ex-h comes to my mother' s funeral.
Ex- h offers D18 to move her with the trailer belonging to MY SISTER! Then, turns around with a : nevermind, probably not a good idea.
Last week, he asked D18 if she had people to move her as he made plan with S20.
I thought Son20 was helping us?? Ex-h tells D18 he will go next week-end to finish setting her up.
Tonight, out of the blue, he shows up at the house with boxes and tells her he will see her in a couple of months as he is going hunting.
He has the audacity to tell her he loves her.

She smiled and said she loves him to.
The end.

It is all in the appearance. Their ego. Their image.
No responsability, no labour, no obligations.
All image..

I refrained from interacting with him and i am glad i did cause i got triggered by him brushing her off.