Originally Posted by kech
...how long could it take for us to live apart before he starts to really see what it is like to be without me?
I am hesitant on saying this, but some say 1 month for every year you have been together. That is a GENERAL rule of thumb. Everyone is on there own timeline.

I know you have lots of questions and everything is so new, but you have to trust in the process.

I think it is important for you to have a plan for tonight. That is the most important thing.

I hope you read my recommendation. Do you have any thoughts or questions?


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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