Well here's the latest. Went to MC and it was a mixed bag. On the one hand she's more open to 'giving love a chance' and it seems my 'validating' sessions have worked because she feels she's been heard. My 180's seemed to have been noticed too.
Feeling heard is big. Keep learning and applying listening skills.
Originally Posted by klau
On the other hand every other issue we've ever had came up and was thrown in my face.
Let them roll off like water. Put your "rain coat on" and keep listening.
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Our anniversary is Monday. She does not want to do anything. The therapist suggested we try and 'have fun' together and with the kids. W has agreed to spend time together on Labor day as a family.
Enjoy. Have a good plan and execute.
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