Previously, H has been adamant that we can get divorce without lawyers. He says we just have to sign papers. I do not know if that is correct or what.
You should read my sitch threads sometime. W wanted the same. My contacting a lawyer shook her out of the "it is going to be a piece of cake, easy peezy lemon squeezy quickie divorce" thinking.
I suggest highly you engage lawyers. He is looking for the path of least resistance here.
Also, you have a child. Most states have a multi-step process in place when there are kids involved. By multi I mean 12-20. Multiple hearings, etc. Navigating that without legal counsel is foolish at best.
There is no such thing as a quickie easy D when there are kids involved.
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