Previously, H has been adamant that we can get divorce without lawyers. He says we just have to sign papers. I do not know if that is correct or what.
Yes I am a talker and a fixer. I always want to fix things to be ok. And he is completely okay with things being on bad terms sometimes, I am absolutely the opposite.
I will try to 180 these but man it is HARD. This has felt like the longest day in history. I will be seeing him in about 4 and a half hours and if he walks in the door with papers I can already feel my heart drop.
Tell him to piss off about not using lawyers. Tell him he's putting you into a legal situation and you will work hard to protect yourself in that situation.
Divorce won't be the end of you, only a new beginning. If he doesn't care to see that, well then he can go kick rocks.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
