Love it when endofit posts. Very positive messages.
Pain,
gotta let her go. If she doesn't want you, she isn't worth worrying about. You're not going to compete for a woman who doesn't want you b/c you know you're worth it. Women hate that. And trust, she is thinking about it. And she is laying in bed or talking to OM wondering why you aren't all over her anymore. The more you pull back, the closer she will get. I can see that your WW still wants to tell you things, wants you to listen to her, etc. But you are too hung up on her so she hasn't felt the need to come get you back yet.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.