Still here. Still not detached... (Part 3)

[ovrrnbw]

I'm sure it's probably on a sticky somewhere but can someone describe the dynamics of going dark while co-parenting?

I'd say make it super simple. Do you have a schedule of when the kids are where? Stick to that. Tell her that you will stick to that unless there is an EMERGENCY or other agreed upon event.

How about using the kids as a proxy? Do your kids have cell phones? If so, they can coordinate. Then, you just don't talk to her.