"You are right. This is not working for me either."
Use it when required.
I like this, so even though I do not feel that way I should say it? The current sitch was not working for me, but normally I would probably say something like we can figure this out together, etc.
Do not follow your feelings. This is a LOGICAL issue.
Right now less words the better. This is about setting him free. That is the only way he will come back.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712