So if my WAW is sitting at home grinning and saying to herself..."yeah he can't resist me" then she's an idiot. She had zero reason to think that...and going forward with my plan of no meetups, she'll see that even more clearly.
that's what you say and that's what you think... but you have given yourself--your inner-self--away... you are there when she calls on you... you have overstayed... you have replied to insignificant temp-checking texts from her... you have made a comment here and there that tells her more than you think... all those teeny-tiny little things are all she needs from you at this time...