I will seek legal advice this week I guess. I am devastated. I do not want us to be in this place and i feel like I just need to talk to him tonight and maybe he will calm down and we can get on the same page as far as divorce and custody is concerned.
If I can catch him in an ok mood we can discuss things. Steve said I should 180 this thought and he is probably right. But I know if I do not express to him that I still want us to stick to not doing anything permanently, then he will probably file out of anger, if he hasnt already