Another thing Steve, I want to say my piece to H since he doesn't listen to me to talk so I want to write a letter to explain how I was also unhappy after our sons autism diagnosis, etc. I was in a bad place and depressed too. But nothing like what he's doing now with this weird fog. Is that persuing if I sent him a letter? My therapist says to write it but DONT send it.
I'm just so mentally drained from all of this. Its hard to stand but I'm trying. His talking happily one way and then running the next is just confusing and hard. I do know at least that he never took our sons autism diagnosis well either and we didn't talk that out with each other.
Together for 13 years, married for 8. H is 46 I'm 40 S is 6 Bombdrop in April 2018 Still in limbo as of 2019
