DB / Detach, WAW... piecing

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As soon as she’s feels the support is cut off she becomes a hysterical child. She says the support she gave me to start my businesses and raise Ariel while I built my business is priceless. Maybe true. Maybe manipulative. But we were definitely together and married at the time. She obsesses over d4 and can’t find balance it’s been this way since we had a child. She say she after our long talk the other night she’s couldn’t sleep. Today we had meet the teacher for d4. W is telling me she feels anxious and doesn’t feel good. Says it should because of me but not my fault and I’m doing nothing Wrong. I was being as pleasant and calm as possible. If we’re meant to be together she will recognize what she could have and what she’s losing. I’m going to ask her what her motivation is for spending time together. I doubt she will say anything positive. Talk about the fact that I believe she is subconsciously manipulative and has been for a long time in regard to winning every dispute. Explain that she has anxiety around me she is not kind or caring there are no acts of love or intimacy from her to me. Where’s the desire or the positive chemistry. Jen sexual attraction Ian there for me but that’s not enough for a good relationship. I’ll admit my own faults regarding mental health NGS covert contracts past immaturity and offer to take the blame and responsibility for the marriage failing. That’s not who I am today or who I want to continue to grow to be in the future. There is a 90 day cool down period if you haven’t been separated for 2 years. So there will be 90 more days where she can decide if she wants to commit to working on our marriage. And she will know I’m not always going to be there just hanging around. I have a great life to lead and I’m ready to get on with it one way or the other.