She knows...Pt. 3

[SteveLW]

So in 9 days what are you going to do? You see, bm, you have made a lot of progress. I agree, it appears she is trying to undo what she did slowly, probably without admitting it to herself.

But in 9 days is danger time my friend. She has been throwing you bones. But remember what got you here, DBing. If she allows the D to be dismissed please do not see that as carte blanche to ratchet up the pressure and pursuit. Remember, even in 9 days you are the lighthouse! You stand in place.....you let her come to you. The more you detach, GAL and continue to 180 the more she'll likely come sniffing around wondering what is up!

Remember, back when you were still pressuring and pursuing? Remember trying to flag her down in the driveway and she just smiled and drove on? Remember, her changing son's dr appointments to avoid you? Remember the texts to stay away from her and not contact her anymore?

And then you got really good at DBing, and suddenly she is meeting you for lunch, and inviting you to the park, etc. Classic pursuit-distance dynamic!

So in 9 days, the D dismissal is formality. But bm is going to keep on DBing!