I’m certainly no expert but I’m almost 4 months in and have seen what does and doesn’t work. I blew up at the first sign of EA and it literally threw my WW on a 4 week bender with the other guy. I have since learned to mention him as little as possible if not at all. All it does is reinforce controlling behavior and push her away.
Maybe you're right lost8 and that's exactly what she said "stay tuned for more texts you will love them" lol. Just couldn't keep it in though problems or not it's wrong and I can't regret my decision need to live with it now if it shuts her off it shuts her off. Need all cards on the table I am working hard to change she needs to change also and that needs to stop.
Originally Posted by lost8
My wife has been initiating sex as well even though she has not wanted to talk about R and I can only do my best work and hope that she remembers why she married me 17 years Ago.
That's encouraging have you tried to hold back? I know it's damn hard to do.
