Can you share your ages? I see you've been married 10 years, how many together? Any previous marriages for either of you?
Paulzee, I'm interested in your sitch because it is very similar to mine. Especially the voracious sex. That happened about 10 weeks into my sitch. It's all documented in my threads. I don't want to give you false hope by my wife have been in R and piecing for almost 6 months now.
I will saw things do look bright for your chances at R. With the spending quality time together.
Couple of red flags. Her drinking. Would you categorize it as excessive. Could she hang out on the deck or at the firepit with you without drinking?
And her behavior the night on the deck is a bit concerning. Does she often swing wildly between extremes like that?
Oh and welcome to the forum!
Hi Steve thank you for the welcome. Do you have a link to your thread? I don't mind answering your questions I am 47 and my wife is 37. She does not drink excessively we do partake from time to time but there are no issues spending time together without alcohol. She does not have typically wild mood swings but I think her frustration with feeling attracted to me again coupled with her anger for how I treated her the past 3 years may have triggered it she's probably confused also. She is sometimes quick to anger over small things but it was worse when she was younger shes much better now. Do you think I did the right thing confronting her on her EA at this point in things? I really needed her to know that I knew the truth about her relationship with Greg, she was playing it off as just a friend, I needed it off my chest. It was pretty flirty for sure and way outside a friendship including her basically telling him all about our marital problems.
