Can you share your ages? I see you've been married 10 years, how many together? Any previous marriages for either of you?

Paulzee, I'm interested in your sitch because it is very similar to mine. Especially the voracious sex. That happened about 10 weeks into my sitch. It's all documented in my threads. I don't want to give you false hope by my wife have been in R and piecing for almost 6 months now.

I will saw things do look bright for your chances at R. With the spending quality time together.

Couple of red flags. Her drinking. Would you categorize it as excessive. Could she hang out on the deck or at the firepit with you without drinking?

And her behavior the night on the deck is a bit concerning. Does she often swing wildly between extremes like that?

Oh and welcome to the forum!


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018