I do not understand how someone can go from being friendlier for a week or two to telling me today that he wants me to list my bills and credit cards for him so he can work up alimony and child support paperwork. THEN when I try to ask about it, he tells me that he's trying to make things easy for me (he says this repeatedly) and gets a little defensive when I say, well this isn't really easy for anyone. I ask some more and he just says, we can talk about it later.

I do not get this at all. He claims to be set on filling out papers and such and then basically says that we can discuss things later. WTH, this is one weird ride.


Together for 13 years, married for 8.
H is 46
I'm 40
S is 6
Bombdrop in April 2018
Still in limbo as of 2019