I confronted my wife today about the texts with the guy from work. She blew up on me and is very angry. No mention of her EA just angry that I looked in her phone, she mentioned that it's controlling, and she's probably right. But I honestly don't care I feel better that it's off my chest. I told her it was wrong for me to snoop on her phone, just as she has done to me countless times, and my Facebook, and my emails. I feel so much lighter now I think it will create a bump in the road but I think she understands and shes shocked and feeling guilty. If we can't have everything in the open than we can't build a new relationship as far as I am concerned.
