Seekn, I think your M is in a very vulnerable spot right now. Recon this soon after BD is very rare. I'm not saying it's impossible, but it can easily unravel if you fall back into old habits. Have you checked into Retrouvaille? I highly recommend it for couples that are in the beginning stages of piecing, it works wonders. It's hosted by the Catholic Church but anyone is welcome. It's not focused on religion, it's focused on strengthening marriages through improved communication.
