I didn't bring up OM. That's twice now she asked if there was anything more I'd like to know about it, and both times I said no. What I do know is she hit on him at a concert, they began texting personal/marriage stuff, they started flirting, and there were at least a few inappropriate/sexual texts. This occurred over a 3 week period.
As for friends/family. I'm struggling with knowing her sincere intentions on that a bit. Is she just worried about it because she doesn't want people 'hating' her and wants her BFFs back? Or is it because if we do try to save us, she wants/needs a smooth transition back into their lives? I'm guessing a combination of both. I don't blame her for being paranoid about everyone thinking stuff. I know a ton of people in this town, and have a lot of friends and family.
I think I did do a good job of validating today. A few times today she even looked at me funny when I'd say, 'i don't blame you for feeling that way'. lol.
Steve, or Ovrr, should I text her that I appreciate her honesty today? Or just let the conversation go?
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
