don't talk about OM. Period. She wants to know something that someone else told you? That's really none of her business. Peole figure these things out on their own a lot of times. If you asked where she was with OM, she would tell you the same. Don't go down that rabbit hole again IMO. It can't be good for you to talk about the OM either, so I'd stop that.
I wouldn't disclose who or how many you've spoken to about your sitch either. Is honesty required from you but not her? Figure out what's right for you with this.
When she went on and on about her IC and everything, just listen and validate her feelings. Don't let her tell lies. That's it.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
