I think you pulling your laundry out of hers and not doing her laundry would send a pretty strong message. When she mentions it say "I understand how you feel. However, giving you space means that I also need to stop doing the kinds of things that your H would normally do for you."
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
