WW- Equalzr's saga pt 2. WW's & MLC'er advice plz

[equalzr]

Message received! Do i pull her laundry out of basket too, since all our laundry is combined? There are some things she does such as grocery shop etc so that will be 1 more thing for me to do.

As far as S goes, he tried asking last year because he obviously was use to the 3 of us being together. W told our S that she's grown, pays the bills, and hes a kid so its none of his business, and she basically yelled at him while doing it. Hes been scared to ask her about it since. She lashes out defensively quitreasily at anything that makes her look bad or questions her.

I still remember not quite a year into this whole ordeal, she was mad at me because i didnt give her advance warning i was going to a movie one night and it ruined her plans. She didnt care that she had done that to me pretty much 5 days a week for almost a year. Ive definitely been used throughout this...and do i feel stupid.

W still does motherly things for S, but hes not #1 on priority list anymore. That and she basically abandoned us when this first started, she was gone from afternoon til morning. That said, shes still the main bread winner, provides insurance etc, and definitely uses it to justify what she does.

Thanks for the advice everyone!