I'm not a big MC guy myself. I'm of the belief that people can work out their issues on their own. Obviously I"m probably wrong about that, but it's what I always believed. I think in our sitch it needs to happen though.

I wonder if she's waiting for me to say 'ok, go ahead and schedule the MC appt'? I don't know if she would do it on her own. And I don't want to bring it up, especially since she (I assume) just started IC.

She works late again tonight, and I'm going to a football game tomorrow, so chances are we won't talk till at least friday. Last week during our 'fight' she commented a few times how 'nothing's being accomplished, since we've had no R talks'.


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14