Hi pain. Use the time wisely. You need to detach and GAL. I know it´s hard but to DB efectively you need to asume some postures. Many of us have proverbial posts printed so we can read them everytime we have any doubt. Some of Cadet´s first post links are a must read everyday thing. Take your time to read that as a way to get some anxiety out. Remember it´s a marathon...
You have power coming from your willingness. You need to interact with your W from that position. Cool, calm collected. Getting amoafwl. You must get her respect back.
If you use D as a weapon to put some pressure on the situation it may backfire...You need to be self confident so if you play that card you must keep the position...are you ready for that?
Take your time. There´s a long road ahead.
I am ready for D if it comes to it. I don’t deserve this amount of hurt and pain. I don’t deserve to be away from my house. I don’t deserve to spend only partial time with D4. I don’t deserve the crippling anxiety of this ordeal.
But I also know others here who have experienced what I’m experiencing for far longer than I have. So I’m not alone.
