I have read here that this process is like one step backwards and two forward, and sometimes it feels like two steps back and one forward. I know there needs to be more detaching from him and on refocusing on other things/areas in my life. Some days are better than others however I do feel more in control of my own emotions than a bit more than a month ago when I started this thread. I haven't cried, I have been avoiding R talk, I have been more positive. I also know that I should put zero pursuing (no cinema trips anymore) and get out of the house more. I am going out on Friday with my single girlfriends! I wonder what else I can do to make myself feel better..
W34 H61 M1 T3 June-H said he wants divorce but hasn't filed. Living and sleeping in the same bed, no intimacy from H side for last 12 months.
