I really hope it works out for you but did she really go to see an IC? Why was she home late?

Its good that she has apologized tho and you are doing MC.
This whole "not sure about us" though is a little worrying and is not a good sign.

I'm sorry to be blunt but you may have to really consider the fact that she could be playing you, lying to you
and possibly be still having an A. Expect the worst. My W lied and still lies to me about everything . Flawless lying
and its so hard to understand and accept why they would do that, but they do. Just be careful.

What concert is she going to? With you? With a "friend"? Find out..

Keep GALing, the Gym is your friend. It has helped me so much to see more clearly.
Acknowledge your faults as I'm sure she points out, apologize ONCE(no more)
work on your shortcomings. I know its hard but you're really going to have to detach because
overthinking things and trying to have R talks with her is a dead end, unless at MC.
You have to be fearless, have balls and not be afraid that what you say or do will upset her.
Its the only way you can regain her respect. When you get that back, your M has a chance.

Best of luck.


M-45
W-32
D-10 D-8
Together 11 years
Married 6 years
Separated 6/2017
ILYBINILWY 11/2016 (also nov 2011)
EA 11/16
PA Same time??
NC, detachment started 12/11/17
D aug 2019