One art

You are a fount of wisdom

I too found reading entire arcs over many years illuminating to me

Seeing all the twists and turns

And different outcomes

And that the LBS who works on himself or herself

Comes out the other side a o k

With or without the spouse

It is quite reassuring

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving