You disagree? But yet state its ok if its financial or for personal protection...
In the meantime he is getting money stolen from him and kids taken without his consent.. it IS for financial and personal protection.
Maybe Im not being clear. I think if the only course of action to obtain financial protection or to obtain custodial guarantees or if his W is being physically abusive or whatever to him or the house or the kids or something....then sure, go ahead and file to obtain those protections. But I think David and his L are working on interim settlements to give those protections. If you can agree with W on those items, then what other value does having a divorce decree offer you?
Im not saying every marriage should be saved. And I am absolutely not saying that now is the time to work on the relationship.
I just dont understand what value a document saying that they are DIVORCED has otherwise.
Originally Posted by Benito
if you think his best option is to leave the door ajar for this women then fair enough.
Yes, I think leaving the door ajar is the best course of action until he is ready to close it. From his posts and the attitude Ive seen, he is nowhere near that point. So what is the harm in leaving that possibility on the table for HIM?
Originally Posted by Benito
The process that is needed i.e. a deep introspective look into yourself etc.. is something i dont believe from posts he has started to the level that is needed to start a healthy journey forward.
Yes. I agree with this.
I just dont see what this has to do with filing for divorce.
